SAY 'I DO' TO COMPASSION - SHIFTING THE WEDDING INDUSTRY TOWARDS ANIMAL-FRIENDLY PRACTICES
We have all seen wedding photos of couples holding lamas and laughing, donkeys covered in flowers pulling carts, weddings in the desert with camels, and elephants used in wedding ceremonies. While this seems like an innocent act and the animals are calm, it actually harms the animals more than one might think.
Most animals “rented” out for weddings are given drugs to remain relaxed in the unusual environment as wedding. One reason to avoid the use of animals in your wedding is because they are not for use for entertainment, photo opportunities and exploitation. These animals normally come from the zoo or a private company where their care is not regulated.
Wedding planning can be so difficult and when you look around Pinterest and blogs you see the use of animals in wedding all over. Some weddings have released frozen butterflies, peace doves, and flamingoes.
It’s hard to see photos in the wedding media and not want the same for your wedding but the best way to incorporate your love of animals is through your decor and invitations. Have a stationary designer create custom invitations showing peacocks and other animals you love. Have a safari theme that features jungle plants and have vegan animal print dresses. Have fun with it and get creative. You can still express yourself and love of the earth without exploiting the animals you love.
It’s natural for you to want your fur baby to be a part of your big day- they are family after all! But please consider whether your dog is shy or extroverted around people and if they can handle the crowds of your wedding. If you're not sure, it's worth taking them to a few crowded places in advance to gauge their reactions. If you want your pup to be the ring bearer consider having a friend who knows your pet well and is comfortable handling them. They can walk them down the aisle then take home after the ceremony so your pup isn’t too overwhelmed. In terms of logistics, you'll need to make sure your pet has a quiet and comfortable space to retreat to if they get overwhelmed, as well as plenty of water and snacks to keep them energized. You may want to bring along some of their favorite toys or blankets to make them feel more at home, too.
Another way to incorporate your fur baby is through your engagement session. Ask your photographer if you can bring your pup to the session or have them come to your home.
If you have already had a wedding that has incorporated live animals please don’t feel guilty. The best thing you can do is spread the word of more compassionate ways to show your love of animals!
Happy wedding planning!
